Using sexual energy for manifestation is a powerful way to change your life. After all, when you’re in the throes of passion, what do you cry out? “Oh, God.” The act of sex connects you to divine light energy which moves through your body and bursts out physically through orgasm.
However, you have to know how to channel this sexual power before and during climax to effectively bring your desires into reality. Whether you’re using masturbation or have a partner, these tips will help you harness your sexual energy for manifestation—no matter where you are in the journey.
Why is sexual energy such a powerful manifestation tool?
When you’re aligned and in tune with your energy, your sexual awareness comes together on every level. That fierce intensity you feel during climax is the energy of the universe inside you. You literally create life with it. So, of course, you can manifest anything you desire with it.
Sex opens up your creative energy. It drives your desire to cultivate a physical reality that aligns with your vibration. Creating that desire becomes even more possible when you abstain from using sex as a recreational tool. Instead, channel your sexual energy and all related intercourse into a very specific purpose.
Things that can lower your sexual energy
Everything is energy, so different situations can raise or lower your energetic frequency. When it comes to sexual energy, you want to be even more intentional about where it goes and what impacts it. I know firsthand how these three factors can lower your sexual energy.
1. Porn
You might turn to porn when you need sexual stimulation. This need can signal you’re already in a low vibrational state. By watching it, you can further decrease your frequency. That’s because these channels typically consist of men, women, and children who have been sexually trafficked. Watch it too much, and that low vibrational energy can drag you down even further, making you feel depressed or gross.
2. Wasting your sexual energy on undeserving people
Going through multiple sexual partners signals an energetic disconnect within. You’re craving connection and emotional satisfaction from someone else.
Each of these interactions involves exchanging life-force energy, which shifts your frequency. If your partner doesn’t know who you are or what you want, you’re unnecessarily depleting your energy source for them. This is especially true for men. As a woman, you’re absorbing someone else’s energy, which can stay with you for years. Be mindful about who you’re giving this energy to.
3. Judgement
You can’t rest in the past and expect to move forward into your desired reality. So, don’t judge where you are in your sexual journey currently or what you’ve done before. Release it. Start fresh where you are and move forward toward what you want to be.
How to Maximize Your Sexual Energy for Manifestation
Connect with Your Chakra System
Your sexual energy is all about your chi, or energy. Your chi ranges from your essence, the lowest representation, to your sheen, your spirit or your highest power. It empowers your life force by flowing along the pathways of your chakra system.
Your chakra system isn’t just for reproduction or passing the time. Harnessing this divine light power puts you in touch with manifesting and allows you to create the Kundalini experience for yourself.
When you are in touch with your chakra system, your sexual energy becomes unmatched. You’ll feel the heat from the bottom of your root chakra all the way through that third eye. And it all begins radiating from your sacral chakra that rules your sensuality.
Set Your Intentions for Sex
This is always the most critical step of any manifestation practice. You should be very clear about what you want, down to the detail. It should excite you just thinking about it. When your desires don’t stir up something inside of you, your energy becomes stagnant.
Store Up Your Sexual Energy
It’s important to harness as much of your sexual energy as possible so that you can push it out all at once. How do you do this? By storing it up and holding off orgasm. The Egyptians, Celtics, and all other powerhouse historical groups knew the importance of this. Even men today will avoid ejaculating to hold onto their energy.
For you, this may mean abstaining from sex for 30 to 90 days or getting right to the peak and stopping before you finish. If you choose the latter, be sure to send all that pent-up energy to different points of your chakra system and fuel your motivations.
Practice with a Partner
When practicing manifestation with a partner, that combination of sexual energy becomes even more powerful.
Choose a sexual partner that makes you feel empowered, meaningful, and beautiful. As a unit, you should feel spiritually aligned, holding nothing back from one another.
Before you manifest with your partner during sex, sit down and lay out your intentions. It doesn’t necessarily need to be related to your relationship or desire for closeness, although it can. The point is to use your hurricane of sexual energy to manifest your individual and combined goals.
During intercourse, you’ll use every part of yourselves to manifest together: your minds (visualization), your genitalia (physicality), and your chakra system (energy). Keep your shared intentions in mind throughout the process. Make sure you’re spending time connecting, looking into each other’s eyes. If your partner doesn’t want to look you in the eye when you’re having sex, find a different partner.
Masturbate with Intention
If you’re a solo flyer, you can use your own vibration and mental imagery to manifest through masturbation. Get really clear on your desires, and right as you’re about to orgasm, imagine that perfect union of free will, desire, and positive energy. Push your manifestations out into the universe using that full release of sexual energy. You can do this two to three times a week with intention.
Remember, it’s always better to manifest through masturbation than to give your sexual energy away to a random partner.
Visualize During Climax
What you think about, you bring about. So, right before your climax, you should think again about what you want to manifest into your reality. And as you orgasm, release that thought into the universe. This action sends your message straight to the cosmos, and an explosion of energy releases to manifest your desires.
Finding sexual motivation without porn
If you’ve gotten used to using porn, it can be hard to find that sexual motivation on your own.
However, aligning with your sexual energy will give you so much freedom.
Here are some ways to help facilitate sex and masturbation without porn:
- Create an image in your mind using your imagination and write it down.
- Stand in the mirror completely naked and talk about how much you love yourself and masturbate to that
- Masturbate to the thought of the partner you desire, who is completely obsessed with you as much as you will be with him.
Really use your power of visualization and imagine how each scenario feels. Use your vocal energy and physicality in unison to keep the energy alive.
Foods that aid in sexual health
If you need more support on your sexual journey, start looking at what you eat. The Earth provides everything we need. These particular whole foods can increase your sexual energy and fuel your sexual health.
- Leafy greens
- Walnuts
- Blueberries—they’re great for your vision, too!
- Kidney beans, black beans, and other legumes
- Water
You can also take a daily supplement for vaginal health to give you a concentrated serving of all those vitamins and minerals that support your reproductive organs. As you can imagine, staying away from alcohol can also help.
Whether you’re a highly sexual, outward being or choose to remain covered and keep it to yourself, there’s no wrong or right. The important part is determining who gets to experience that exchange of sexual energy. It’s crucial to harness these vibrations and use them to benefit and empower you. If you feel that you aren’t using sex to manifest powerful things into your reality, then it’s time to change your vibration with these three steps.
You owe it to yourself and others to use all the resources and modalities of the practices to fulfill your purpose through manifested desires.
